6.10.2009

Glamnuptials : The REAL Budget

When I started planning my wedding, there is one thing that I kept looking for and had a hard time finding, the budget breakdown of a real wedding. Oh course the budget depends on a lot of factors. Location, Date, and Amount of Guests but still I wanted to have some sort of idea. Who wouldn't?

What was particularly difficult with our situation was the Mr.Flamingo was in school the whole time we were engaged and even after the wedding. So planning a wedding on one salary wasn't the easiest thing to do... but do-able nonetheless. We simply needed to have an extra long engagement in return (2 and a half years) but it was worth it.

Here is the breakdown to our glamnuptials:

Date: June 21st 2008
City: In the Suburbs (approx 30 minutes from Montreal)
Budget: $22,000
# of Guests: 145
(including children, vendors & excluding guests (30-40) who came in the evening )

Wedding Day Costs

Ceremony Site: $475
This included the officiant and helpers for no extra cost. We basically had a mini church coordinator so everything ran quite smoothly.

Reception Site: N/A
There were no fee associated with the Hotel we used for our wedding reception. Basically the cost was broken down with the food and drinks. We had a beautiful hall with the capacity of 300 guests. (Therefore enough room to move and dance) We had a beautiful terrace where guests could enjoy with a waterfall and fireplace at night.

Food & Drink: $13 010

The reception started off with a cocktail and some hors d'oeuvre. Then was followed by a 5 course meal with wine included during the meal and open bar after 10:30 for a time slot of 4 hours and a sweet table at the stroke of midnight. This included 4 vendor meals ($35.00 / per vendor ) Here is the breakdown of the food and drinks:
  • Hors d'oeuvre: $850 ($21.25 per dozen)
  • 5 course Meal: $77.00 / per adult - $17.00 / per child
  • Open Bar: $18.50 per adult (18 years and older)
  • Sweet table: $500.00 (including pizzas, sandwiches, fruits, cake)
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    total : $13007.50 (excluding service charges/gratuities
Service Charge/Gratuities: $1950.00
A 15% gratuity and all service charges for 1 event manager, 6 servers, 1 kitchen staff, and 3 bartenders was added to the total amount.

Cake: 375$
A 3-tier, chocolate, marble and vanilla cake. A small cake (75 large portions) to serve at the sweet table since we already had a dessert included in the main meal.

Bridal Gown & Alterations: $0 (dress) $125 (alterations)
My wedding dress was a gift from my mother. But it cost
$690 this included dress, veil, shale, sash, and extra straps. Even thought I barely had any alterations to get done, I needed to make my dress shorter. The alterations cost 125$

Bridal Accessories: $320
I had lots of accessories some purchased some DIY projects. Here's the breakdown:

  • Jewelry Set: $130
  • Shoes: $95
  • Shoe embellishments: $10
  • Hair Comb: $10
  • Handmade Brooch: $15
  • Garter : $10
  • Undergarments: $50

Groom’s Attire: N/A
Where we got the suits for the guys a little guy, there was a great promotion which allowed the groom to rent his attire for free!

Manicure/Pedicure : $0
Offered as a gift by my sister (aka bridesmaid)

Hair/Makeup: 0$
My hair was done by my awesome hairdresser. My step-mother was the sweetest and paid for all the girls and myself. As for my makeup, it was done by my awesome friend, also a gift.

Stationery/Postage: $435

  • Invitations & envelopes: $75.00
  • RSVP Postcards: $25.00
  • Accomodation Cards: $25.00
  • Thank-Yous & envelopes: $40.00
  • Postage: $120.00
  • Printing and/or Ink: $150.00

Other stationery items: $60

  • Place Cards: $40.00
  • Guest book: $0 Gift from a friend
  • Programs : $10.00
  • Menus: $10.00
  • Printing and/or Ink: $25.00

Flowers: $480
All wedding flowers included:

  • Bride Bouquet : $100
  • 3 Bridesmaid + 1 MOH bouquet + Toss Bouquet : $240
  • 6 bouts: $60
  • 5 corsages : $50
  • DIY Bouquet Bling: $30

Centerpieces/Decor: $1000
Various decor elements included:

  • Table runners: $125
  • Vases + Mirroirs: $350
  • Garlands and chandelier pieces: $40
  • Candles: $85
  • Vintage Park Lighting: $400

Photography: 1000$
Being a graphic designer and familiar with Photoshop, I wanted my pictures to be RAW (un-edited) on a DVD. That way, it was good for both parties, less work for them, and cheaper price for me. Plus I got to do all the editing I wanted and feel free to use any picture I wanted

Videography: 3500$
Having our videographer come from NYC to our wedding obviously raised the cost and we definitely busted our budget on this one. That's why we opted for less coverage (6 hours only) But to be honest, I'm extremely happy we decided to splurge on the Super 8 ... without it, my wedding wouldn't of been the same.

Ceremony/Reception Music: 700$
Our DJ was awesome. Not only was the find a great deal, but the guests did not stop dancing for one bit. The price included 10 hours and all the props; glow sticks, hats, hawaiian necklaces..etc

Coordinator: N/A

Favors: 300$
Bottles of water combined with a donation to the Quebec Breast Cancer Foundation in memory of my grandmother and in honor mommy flamingo, survivor.

Wedding Party Gifts: $300
The bridesmaids (x3) got a 50$ gift which included a Flash Drive, a journal, and an embroidered silk jewelry roll. I gave the same to my MOH but added a 50$ gift certificate at a local spa. The best man got superman cuff links and a 50$ gift certificate.

Transportation: $425
Rental of our beautiful Vintage 1957 Bentley. This amount was for 6 hours and included the champagne, red carpet and all. Tip was also included.

Night Accommodations: $0
Honeymoon suite was offered as a gift by the hotel for having our wedding reception take place there. It was a very very nice honeymoon suite.

Miscellaneous: $385
Flower girl attire: $60
Ring Bearer attire: $125
Parent Gifts: $200

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Wedding Day Total: $ 24 840
Total Cost per person: $ 171.31
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All inclusive costs:

Wedding rings: $ 1800 (both)
Having my ring made by a jeweler boosted the price of my ring over than what I originally wanted to pay for it. Regardless, its a good investement, anyway my fingers would say so. ;)

Rehearsal Dinner/Day After Brunch: N/A

Mini-moon: 1250$
Because of budget restraints we decided on doing a minimoon to New York City. A 4 day 3 night trip filled with shopping, museums, dining out and of course a broadway show.

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All inclusive total: $3050
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For a Grand total of .... drum roll please: $27 890

I was afraid adding up all the totals, but honestly... its not as bad as I thought. A little over 5500$ of my initial budget. I must say though that being prepared and having every little details in a budget excel sheet made it so much easier to see how much I spent when planning my wedding. For those interested, you can download my budget form here.

Hope this has helped in some way...


Images taken by Ipi-events, Anne-Emilie Photo and guests
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Previously:
Glamnuptials: Beauty Time
Glamnuptials: Prep Time
Glamnuptials: Ceremony Part 1
Glamnuptials: Ceremony Part 2
Glamnuptials: Bride Posing
Glamnuptials: Groom Posing
Glamnuptials: Strike the pose Part 1
Glamnuptials: Strike the pose Part 2
Glamnuptials: The Newlyweds
Glamnuptials: We are Family
Glamnuptials: First Dance

Glamnuptials: Le Gâteau
Glamnuptials: The Guestbook
Glamnuptials: Decor Elements
Glamnuptials: Giving our gifts
Glamnuptials: DAS aka Day after Shoot
Glamnuptials: Wedding Movie Trailer
Glamnuptials: Real Wedding Inspiration Board

6.09.2009

Glamnuptials: First Dance

It was perfect, even when tripping in chairs... because we were making our way to the dance floor... for our first dance, something I've been anticipating for as long as I can remember... (Cue Lifehouses' acoustic version of Take me Away)


We decided we were going to do it differently and dance as soon as we were introduced as Mr. and Mrs. Flamingo. We wanted to make sure that both Wes of Film Jones and the our Photographer captured this special moment and officially opened up the dance floor with our first dance.


How to describe the way I felt... speechless doesn't even come close, doesn't do it justice. I didn't cry, I didn't really speak which made it even more magical... I simply smiled looked into Mr.Flamingos eyes and sang along with him to "our song" the one that was part of the "Us" being together, today, getting married. It meant the world to us, to finally associate the words with our union.


"this time, all I want is you, there is no one else, who can take your place" (lyrics from Take Me Away by Lifehouse)
this time... I love you and it's forever...

Up next: Toast time and a little tear …

Images taken by Ipi-events
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Previously:
Glamnuptials : Beauty Time
Glamnuptials : Prep Time
Glamnuptials : Ceremony Part 1
Glamnuptials : Ceremony Part 2
Glamnuptials: Bride Posing
Glamnuptials: Groom Posing
Glamnuptials: Strike the pose Part 1
Glamnuptials: Strike the pose Part 2
Glamnuptials: The Newlyweds
Glamnuptials: We are Family
Glamnuptials : Le Gâteau
Glamnuptials : The Guestbook
Glamnuptials : Decor Elements
Glamnuptials: Giving our gifts
Glamnuptials : DAS aka Day after Shoot
Glamnuptials: Wedding Movie Trailer
Glamnuptials: Real Wedding Inspiration Board

5.28.2009

Glamnuptials: We are family

Once we made our grand entrance outside and seeing all our guest enjoying themselves with a little cocktail and hors d'oeuvres, the stress finally disappeared... and we knew it was time to relax, enjoy and savour every moment of our wedding reception.


While guests walked in, they looked for their name on our chandelier tree. I had written their names and the table number but in case they weren't certain I made a seating chart filled with glam clear rhinestones.


It was funny, aligning everyone for the receiving line... it seriously seemed to be the most complicating thing. Who goes where? who's next to who? What order should everyone be placed in ? I have to admit this isn't something I paid much attention too and in the end, it all worked out.


Once everyone seated, we went outside to prepare ourselves. This time around it was to introduce the family and bridal party... the DJ hit the play button and my families were introduced on THE song of all family songs.... "We are Family" Basically this songs says it all, and has been the default song to represent my family, so our wedding was no exception to the rule.




When it was time to introduce us, (aka the newlyweds) we used the oh-so appropriate song "It had to be you" by Harry Connick Jr. from the movie When Harry Met Sally. Once we walked in... we seriously felt like stars with continuous flashes and everyone clapping away. "Make way for the bride and groom" we heard at one point and chairs were literally flying across the room to give us space to walk. LOL

It was perfect, even when tripping in chairs... because we were making our way to the dance floor... for our first dance, something I've been anticipating for as long as I can remember...

Up next: The first dance...

Images taken by Ipi-events and Guest
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Previously:
Glamnuptials : Beauty Time
Glamnuptials : Prep Time
Glamnuptials : Ceremony Part 1
Glamnuptials : Ceremony Part 2
Glamnuptials: Bride Posing
Glamnuptials: Groom Posing
Glamnuptials: Strike the pose Part 1
Glamnuptials: Strike the pose Part 2
Glamnuptials: The Newlyweds

Glamnuptials : Le Gâteau
Glamnuptials : The Guestbook
Glamnuptials : Decor Elements
Glamnuptials: Giving our gifts
Glamnuptials : DAS aka Day after Shoot
Glamnuptials: Wedding Movie Trailer
Glamnuptials: Real Wedding Inspiration Board

4.06.2009

Glamnuptials: The Newlyweds

Seriously...I wouldn't imagine any better way to celebrate our new life together.... like my fave disney movie song says so well "go on and kiss the girl" (I know you all know what movie I am talking about ; hint: shes a mermaid)

Once the ceremony was finished, it was like a huge weight was lifted off my shoulders. No more pressure of screwing up my vows, or I dunno say... lose my garter while walking down the aisle... (oh wait- that DID happen... ) Regardless, I was one happy MRS. and this picture was proof of that.

Even though everything seemed to go smoothly... my new hubby kept stepping on my dress... and it literally yanked me a couple of times. I was afraid to pull a "Jessica Alba in Good Luck Chuck" you know, where her skirt gets caught in the car door and rips off leaving her in her panties... not a very sexy thing to happen on your wedding day.

When Mr.Flamingo wasn't stepping on my dress, we were able to snap a couple of shots. Thank goodness because I seriously didn't need another reason for having mediocre pictures.

Prepping up for the next pic, I happen to see something dark come right in my face. I soon realized my older sister was trying to put glasses on my face. Even though I knew these pictures wouldn't be as great as if we had brought our own sunglasses ... it was funny to see Mr.Flamingo take advantage of the situation and ...

looked down my dress - no need to worry, my ladies are still there and all yours!


After fooling around and being a typical guy, we were able to take my favourite newlyweds shot. Every time I look at this picture it puts a smile on my face, and I reminisce... "remember when we got married... " even though it hasn't even been a year.

When the photo session was completed, it was time to go back to the hotel and discover what the "Bosse des Noces" did for us. When we made our big entrace (really it was an exit) on the terrase (where all our guests were enjoying cockails and hors d'oeuvres) we were welcomed with lots and lots of clapping hands.



It was so nice to finally enjoy the party... plus, it was a gorgeous day and the sun made everyone even more happy (though I don't think that was any way possible). When we got inside, we took a picture next to our chandelier tree - one of my favorite decor pieces. Don't know what I was looking at, guess it would of been a good idea to look at the photographer... oh well.

All the unexpected moments are what made our wedding day even more special. Did you have any funny stories/moments on your wedding day?

Up next: Introducing the family and bridal party of the newlyweds…

Images taken by Ipi-events and Anne-Emilie Sayegh Photo
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Previously:
Glamnuptials : Beauty Time
Glamnuptials : Prep Time
Glamnuptials : Ceremony Part 1
Glamnuptials : Ceremony Part 2
Glamnuptials: Bride Posing
Glamnuptials: Groom Posing
Glamnuptials: Strike the pose Part 1
Glamnuptials: Strike the pose Part 2
Glamnuptials : Le Gâteau
Glamnuptials : The Guestbook
Glamnuptials : Decor Elements
Glamnuptials: Giving our gifts
Glamnuptials : DAS aka Day after Shoot
Glamnuptials: Wedding Movie Trailer
Glamnuptials: Real Wedding Inspiration Board

4.01.2009

Glamnuptials: Strike the Pose Part 2

Taking pictures and more pictures is what a wedding is all about, so here is part 2 of Strike the pose! When we were planning our wedding we wanted to take the whole picture thingy into consideration. So we decided to rent some vintage inspired lamp posts to recreate a park circa the 1950s.

The result... beautiful pics with an awesome backdrop.

My sisters


We seriously had a blast taking pictures with our guests. It was the beginning of a movement (if I can call it that) people were standing in line to take pictures of us; like we were some famous rocks stars signing autographs. Rock on!

Some girlfriends

My flower girl showing off her pink flip-flops

I was lucky that two of my grandparents were able to share this special day with us, since Mr.Flamingos grandparents passed away when he was just a little boy. Mommy flamingo's daddy was with us, and daddy flamingo's mommy too. They were so happy to witness this special day, and we were even more happy to share it with them.


My 93 year old italian nonna

I felt extremely lucky to have both my mom and my stepmom... thats double mommy goodness, and the fact that they are such great friends made it so much easier. No fights, no issues with seating arrangements, just love.

Step-mom, me (duh!) and Mommy flamingo


My new family :)

My high school friends made it to my wedding, who knew we would stick together after all this time ( 14 years is a very long time!) I was the first one to get married and let me tell you they partied like there was no tomorrow. LOL


My cheeks hurt so much because of the permanent smile on my face. Guess thats part of the whole "its your wedding day, say chesse! " ;)

My aunt

Up next: Introducing the newlyweds…

Images taken by Ipi-events and guests
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Previously:
Glamnuptials : Beauty Time
Glamnuptials : Prep Time
Glamnuptials : Ceremony Part 1
Glamnuptials : Ceremony Part 2
Glamnuptials: Bride Posing
Glamnuptials: Groom Posing
Glamnuptials: Strike the pose Part 1
Glamnuptials : Le Gâteau
Glamnuptials : The Guestbook
Glamnuptials : Decor Elements
Glamnuptials: Giving our gifts
Glamnuptials : DAS aka Day after Shoot
Glamnuptials: Wedding Movie Trailer
Glamnuptials: Real Wedding Inspiration Board